On the FAF Develop game type there's a solution to this. You can increase the 'selection threshold', making it easier to select things in general and there's a separate slider when you try to issue reclaim orders. See also: https://github.com/FAForever/fa/pull/4124 or https://forum.faforever.com/topic/4705/upcoming-developers-patch .
Note that some UI mods are deprecated on FAF Develop as they are being integrated, one piece at a time. The release date is uncertain, but should be somewhere near the end of September or the start of October.