Do you think thee is a way around it? Or it is a lost cause.
I can use my setup to do some tests if needed, just keep in mind I'm not a developer myself so I may not have the tools you'd expect immediately at hand.
Another thing I'm curious about, I ran into the problem trying to game with friends that are on PC, none of them has a M1 mac, but how does it behave in a game between two M1 mac?