Positively impressed arma.
@blackyps said in My Apologies from my behaviour in the tourney:
How is it cancel culture when someone apologizes?
Did I explain myself that bad???
All the things you do or not do have consequences. Apologizing to the crowd should be an unnecessary thing because turbo was the target of his emotions, so the whole thing was about him not us. When we get triggered by yudi it is our problem because we were guest in his his clash with turbo.
Ofc his reflection and his post is nice, but these kind of posts lead to the entitlement that this kind of behavior is unacceptable and we have the right to enforce a "better" environment, which we have not.
This may be the foundation of potential cancel culture. The corresponding thought chain I teased with "against the cancel culture" and it has nothing to do with yudi. The target audience are we, when we communicate, manage our expectations or try to moderate the aelus chat^^
To sum it up:
Reflection - nice
Personal apology - nice
This post - unnecessary
I know that this whole statement is controversial, but I try to be that kind of man that gives my opponent a credit when I try to decode/understand his message.
In communication it's our responsibility to make sure that we understand others right and others get our message. But we have no right to get not triggered, because failure will happen. All these things happened between yudi and turbo. Therefore the topic must be handled by them not us.
Ofc we may change our opinion to yudi based on his in-game chat, but I really doubt that this is the case for most of us, since most of us know him.
So this post is unnecessary and by recognizing it the reader passively forms the opinion that yudis in-game chat is of public interest and god bless it is not.
And like arma said I'm very happy that it is not my business.
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions." (And this is a thought teaser as well it has nothing to do with yudi^^).