@askaholic Let's be honest, you've never been bothered by the current site before.
The site loads quickly, the picture loads gradually.
I tried to block the banner, and it won't be so easy, it will take some manipulation to get to the desired element. Therefore, I don't believe the guy who blocked it all: DDD
Video will also sink gradually and it will work as it loads. But it depends on the scheme of installing it on the site.
And yes, I use mobile internet for my laptop, it uses 3G connection, and it's about 1mb-2mb at the moment, out of town and i have no problem with site loading.
As FTX said, it is not a problem with user connection. It is a slowly server work.
If you want users to see the fully load site, then make loader that will show the site after load.
as example: www.theseawebreathe.com