Can't see friends games in lobby

I have two friends that I play with often. After the last FAF update, I can't see my friends games in the lobby. In addition, one of my friends can see and join my games, but the other one can't see either of our games in the lobby.

In addition, I can't see my friends games when I look at chat, but I can see their games in replay.

Likely some of you have enforced rating checked for their games so no one outside that rating will see the games

They are ALL within the ratings that I set...deliberately so they can join

I'm that friend

I can't see his games in the lobby or the right hand window if you chat with them. I've set the Ivp6 settings on/off, set the faf server it connects to Germany. Nothing seems to change. Its only Pops and 1 other users games I can't see in the lobby. Other friends can see their games.

They also can see lobby games I create but not the other way around