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i don't know how but 2 hours later i tried to join game and it worked, i didn't do anything, im confused

after update i got error when joining match, after reinstaling i played quick match 1vs1, it worked then i joined custom match, in lobby everyone was connected but on my screen everyone was still connecting, i got kicked from lobby, after again joining custom match, connecting to lobby was taking forever, i canceled it and joined quick match and got error

javax.net.ssl.SSLException: Tag mismatch!
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.Alert.createSSLException(Alert.java:133)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.TransportContext.fatal(TransportContext.java:370)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.TransportContext.fatal(TransportContext.java:313)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.TransportContext.fatal(TransportContext.java:308)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLTransport.decode(SSLTransport.java:123)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLSocketImpl.decode(SSLSocketImpl.java:1503)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLSocketImpl.readApplicationRecord(SSLSocketImpl.java:1474)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLSocketImpl$AppInputStream.read(SSLSocketImpl.java:1059)
at java.base/java.io.BufferedInputStream.fill(BufferedInputStream.java:244)
at java.base/java.io.BufferedInputStream.read1(BufferedInputStream.java:284)
at java.base/java.io.BufferedInputStream.read(BufferedInputStream.java:343)
at java.base/sun.net.www.http.ChunkedInputStream.fastRead(ChunkedInputStream.java:244)
at java.base/sun.net.www.http.ChunkedInputStream.read(ChunkedInputStream.java:698)
at java.base/java.io.FilterInputStream.read(FilterInputStream.java:132)
at java.base/sun.net.www.protocol.http.HttpURLConnection$HttpInputStream.read(HttpURLConnection.java:3663)
at org.apache.commons.compress.utils.CountingInputStream.read(CountingInputStream.java:56)
at java.base/java.io.BufferedInputStream.fill(BufferedInputStream.java:244)
at java.base/java.io.BufferedInputStream.read1(BufferedInputStream.java:284)
at java.base/java.io.BufferedInputStream.read(BufferedInputStream.java:343)
at java.base/java.io.FilterInputStream.read(FilterInputStream.java:132)
at java.base/java.io.PushbackInputStream.read(PushbackInputStream.java:182)
at java.base/java.io.FilterInputStream.read(FilterInputStream.java:106)
at org.apache.commons.compress.archivers.zip.ZipArchiveInputStream.fill(ZipArchiveInputStream.java:861)
at org.apache.commons.compress.archivers.zip.ZipArchiveInputStream.readFromInflater(ZipArchiveInputStream.java:650)
at org.apache.commons.compress.archivers.zip.ZipArchiveInputStream.readDeflated(ZipArchiveInputStream.java:625)
at org.apache.commons.compress.archivers.zip.ZipArchiveInputStream.read(ZipArchiveInputStream.java:528)
at java.base/java.io.InputStream.read(InputStream.java:218)
at com.faforever.commons.io.ByteCopier.copy(ByteCopier.java:65)
at com.faforever.commons.io.Unzipper.unzip(Unzipper.java:67)
at com.faforever.client.map.DownloadMapTask.call(DownloadMapTask.java:57)
at com.faforever.client.map.DownloadMapTask.call(DownloadMapTask.java:19)
at javafx.concurrent.Task$TaskCallable.call(Task.java:1426)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.FutureTask.run(FutureTask.java:264)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor.runWorker(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:1136)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(ThreadPoolExecutor.java:635)
at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:833)
Caused by: javax.crypto.AEADBadTagException: Tag mismatch!
at java.base/com.sun.crypto.provider.GaloisCounterMode$GCMDecrypt.doFinal(GaloisCounterMode.java:1486)
at java.base/com.sun.crypto.provider.GaloisCounterMode.engineDoFinal(GaloisCounterMode.java:447)
at java.base/javax.crypto.Cipher.doFinal(Cipher.java:2500)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLCipher$T13GcmReadCipherGenerator$GcmReadCipher.decrypt(SSLCipher.java:1933)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLSocketInputRecord.decodeInputRecord(SSLSocketInputRecord.java:260)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLSocketInputRecord.decode(SSLSocketInputRecord.java:181)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLTransport.decode(SSLTransport.java:111)
... 31 more

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java.util.concurrent.CompletionException: org.springframework.web.reactive.function.client.WebClientResponseException: 200 OK from GET https://api.faforever.com/data/coopResult?include=game.playerStats.player&filter=mission%3D%3D"1"&sort=duration&page[size]=1000; nested exception is io.netty.handler.codec.DecoderException: javax.net.ssl.SSLException: Tag mismatch!
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.CompletableFuture.encodeThrowable(CompletableFuture.java:332)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.CompletableFuture.completeThrowable(CompletableFuture.java:347)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.CompletableFuture$UniApply.tryFire(CompletableFuture.java:636)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.CompletableFuture.postComplete(CompletableFuture.java:510)
at java.base/java.util.concurrent.CompletableFuture.completeExceptionally(CompletableFuture.java:2162)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoToCompletableFuture.onError(MonoToCompletableFuture.java:77)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoCollectList$MonoCollectListSubscriber.onError(MonoCollectList.java:114)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMapFuseable$MapFuseableSubscriber.onError(FluxMapFuseable.java:142)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxPeekFuseable$PeekFuseableSubscriber.onError(FluxPeekFuseable.java:234)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxReplay$UnboundedReplayBuffer.replayNormal(FluxReplay.java:599)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxReplay$UnboundedReplayBuffer.replay(FluxReplay.java:709)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxReplay$ReplaySubscriber.onError(FluxReplay.java:1360)
at reactor.core.publisher.SerializedSubscriber.onError(SerializedSubscriber.java:124)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxRetryWhen$RetryWhenMainSubscriber.whenError(FluxRetryWhen.java:225)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxRetryWhen$RetryWhenOtherSubscriber.onError(FluxRetryWhen.java:274)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxConcatMap$ConcatMapImmediate.drain(FluxConcatMap.java:415)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxConcatMap$ConcatMapImmediate.onNext(FluxConcatMap.java:251)
at reactor.core.publisher.EmitterProcessor.drain(EmitterProcessor.java:537)
at reactor.core.publisher.EmitterProcessor.tryEmitNext(EmitterProcessor.java:343)
at reactor.core.publisher.SinkManySerialized.tryEmitNext(SinkManySerialized.java:100)
at reactor.core.publisher.InternalManySink.emitNext(InternalManySink.java:27)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxRetryWhen$RetryWhenMainSubscriber.onError(FluxRetryWhen.java:190)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoFlatMapMany$FlatMapManyInner.onError(MonoFlatMapMany.java:255)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnErrorResume$ResumeSubscriber.onError(FluxOnErrorResume.java:106)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoFlatMap$FlatMapMain.onNext(MonoFlatMap.java:142)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onNext(FluxMap.java:122)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnErrorResume$ResumeSubscriber.onNext(FluxOnErrorResume.java:79)
at reactor.core.publisher.Operators$ScalarSubscription.request(Operators.java:2398)
at reactor.core.publisher.Operators$MultiSubscriptionSubscriber.set(Operators.java:2194)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnErrorResume$ResumeSubscriber.onSubscribe(FluxOnErrorResume.java:74)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoJust.subscribe(MonoJust.java:55)
at reactor.core.publisher.Mono.subscribe(Mono.java:4397)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnErrorResume$ResumeSubscriber.onError(FluxOnErrorResume.java:103)
at reactor.core.publisher.Operators$MonoSubscriber.onError(Operators.java:1863)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnAssembly$OnAssemblySubscriber.onError(FluxOnAssembly.java:544)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMapFuseable$MapFuseableSubscriber.onError(FluxMapFuseable.java:142)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxContextWrite$ContextWriteSubscriber.onError(FluxContextWrite.java:121)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMapFuseable$MapFuseableConditionalSubscriber.onError(FluxMapFuseable.java:340)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxFilterFuseable$FilterFuseableConditionalSubscriber.onError(FluxFilterFuseable.java:382)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoCollect$CollectSubscriber.onError(MonoCollect.java:145)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onError(FluxMap.java:134)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxPeek$PeekSubscriber.onError(FluxPeek.java:222)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onError(FluxMap.java:134)
at reactor.core.publisher.Operators.error(Operators.java:198)
at reactor.netty.channel.FluxReceive.startReceiver(FluxReceive.java:172)
at reactor.netty.channel.FluxReceive.subscribe(FluxReceive.java:143)
at reactor.core.publisher.InternalFluxOperator.subscribe(InternalFluxOperator.java:62)
at reactor.netty.ByteBufFlux.subscribe(ByteBufFlux.java:340)
at reactor.core.publisher.Mono.subscribe(Mono.java:4397)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnErrorResume$ResumeSubscriber.onError(FluxOnErrorResume.java:103)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxOnAssembly$OnAssemblySubscriber.onError(FluxOnAssembly.java:544)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoFlatMapMany$FlatMapManyMain.onError(MonoFlatMapMany.java:204)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoFlatMap$FlatMapMain.onError(MonoFlatMap.java:172)
at reactor.core.publisher.MonoReduce$ReduceSubscriber.onError(MonoReduce.java:128)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onError(FluxMap.java:134)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onError(FluxMap.java:134)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxPeek$PeekSubscriber.onError(FluxPeek.java:222)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onError(FluxMap.java:134)
at reactor.netty.channel.FluxReceive.onInboundError(FluxReceive.java:450)
at reactor.netty.channel.ChannelOperations.onInboundError(ChannelOperations.java:488)
at reactor.netty.channel.ChannelOperationsHandler.exceptionCaught(ChannelOperationsHandler.java:126)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:302)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:281)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.fireExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:273)
at io.netty.channel.CombinedChannelDuplexHandler$DelegatingChannelHandlerContext.fireExceptionCaught(CombinedChannelDuplexHandler.java:424)
at io.netty.channel.ChannelHandlerAdapter.exceptionCaught(ChannelHandlerAdapter.java:92)
at io.netty.channel.CombinedChannelDuplexHandler$1.fireExceptionCaught(CombinedChannelDuplexHandler.java:145)
at io.netty.channel.ChannelInboundHandlerAdapter.exceptionCaught(ChannelInboundHandlerAdapter.java:143)
at io.netty.channel.CombinedChannelDuplexHandler.exceptionCaught(CombinedChannelDuplexHandler.java:231)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:302)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:281)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.fireExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:273)
at io.netty.handler.ssl.SslHandler.exceptionCaught(SslHandler.java:1105)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeExceptionCaught(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:302)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:381)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.fireChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:357)
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$HeadContext.channelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:1410)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365)
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline.fireChannelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:919)
at io.netty.channel.nio.AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.read(AbstractNioByteChannel.java:166)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKey(NioEventLoop.java:722)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeysOptimized(NioEventLoop.java:658)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeys(NioEventLoop.java:584)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:496)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$4.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:997)
at io.netty.util.internal.ThreadExecutorMap$2.run(ThreadExecutorMap.java:74)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.FastThreadLocalRunnable.run(FastThreadLocalRunnable.java:30)
at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:833)
Caused by: org.springframework.web.reactive.function.client.WebClientResponseException: 200 OK from GET https://api.faforever.com/data/coopResult?include=game.playerStats.player&filter=mission%3D%3D"1"&sort=duration&page[size]=1000; nested exception is io.netty.handler.codec.DecoderException: javax.net.ssl.SSLException: Tag mismatch!
at org.springframework.web.reactive.function.client.WebClientResponseException.create(WebClientResponseException.java:229)
at org.springframework.web.reactive.function.client.DefaultClientResponse.lambda$createException$1(DefaultClientResponse.java:207)
at reactor.core.publisher.FluxMap$MapSubscriber.onNext(FluxMap.java:106)
... 64 more
Caused by: io.netty.handler.codec.DecoderException: javax.net.ssl.SSLException: Tag mismatch!
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.callDecode(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:480)
Suppressed: The stacktrace has been enhanced by Reactor, refer to additional information below:
Error has been observed at the following site(s):
*__checkpoint ⇢ Body from GET https://api.faforever.com/data/coopResult?include=game.playerStats.player&filter=mission%3D%3D"1"&sort=duration&page[size]=1000 [DefaultClientResponse]
*__checkpoint ⇢ Body from GET https://api.faforever.com/data/coopResult?include=game.playerStats.player&filter=mission%3D%3D"1"&sort=duration&page[size]=1000 [DefaultClientResponse]
Original Stack Trace:
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.callDecode(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:480)
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.channelRead(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:279)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.fireChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:357)
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$HeadContext.channelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:1410)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365)
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline.fireChannelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:919)
at io.netty.channel.nio.AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.read(AbstractNioByteChannel.java:166)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKey(NioEventLoop.java:722)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeysOptimized(NioEventLoop.java:658)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeys(NioEventLoop.java:584)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:496)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$4.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:997)
at io.netty.util.internal.ThreadExecutorMap$2.run(ThreadExecutorMap.java:74)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.FastThreadLocalRunnable.run(FastThreadLocalRunnable.java:30)
at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:833)
Caused by: javax.net.ssl.SSLException: Tag mismatch!
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.Alert.createSSLException(Alert.java:133)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.TransportContext.fatal(TransportContext.java:370)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.TransportContext.fatal(TransportContext.java:313)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.TransportContext.fatal(TransportContext.java:308)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLTransport.decode(SSLTransport.java:123)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineImpl.decode(SSLEngineImpl.java:736)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineImpl.readRecord(SSLEngineImpl.java:691)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineImpl.unwrap(SSLEngineImpl.java:506)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineImpl.unwrap(SSLEngineImpl.java:482)
at java.base/javax.net.ssl.SSLEngine.unwrap(SSLEngine.java:679)
at io.netty.handler.ssl.SslHandler$SslEngineType$3.unwrap(SslHandler.java:296)
at io.netty.handler.ssl.SslHandler.unwrap(SslHandler.java:1343)
at io.netty.handler.ssl.SslHandler.decodeJdkCompatible(SslHandler.java:1236)
at io.netty.handler.ssl.SslHandler.decode(SslHandler.java:1285)
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.decodeRemovalReentryProtection(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:510)
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.callDecode(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:449)
at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.channelRead(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:279)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.fireChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:357)
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline$HeadContext.channelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:1410)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:379)
at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:365)
at io.netty.channel.DefaultChannelPipeline.fireChannelRead(DefaultChannelPipeline.java:919)
at io.netty.channel.nio.AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.read(AbstractNioByteChannel.java:166)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKey(NioEventLoop.java:722)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeysOptimized(NioEventLoop.java:658)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeys(NioEventLoop.java:584)
at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:496)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$4.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:997)
at io.netty.util.internal.ThreadExecutorMap$2.run(ThreadExecutorMap.java:74)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.FastThreadLocalRunnable.run(FastThreadLocalRunnable.java:30)
at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:833)
Caused by: javax.crypto.AEADBadTagException: Tag mismatch!
at java.base/com.sun.crypto.provider.GaloisCounterMode$GCMDecrypt.doFinal(GaloisCounterMode.java:1486)
at java.base/com.sun.crypto.provider.GaloisCounterMode.engineDoFinal(GaloisCounterMode.java:447)
at java.base/javax.crypto.Cipher.doFinal(Cipher.java:2500)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLCipher$T13GcmReadCipherGenerator$GcmReadCipher.decrypt(SSLCipher.java:1933)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineInputRecord.decodeInputRecord(SSLEngineInputRecord.java:239)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineInputRecord.decode(SSLEngineInputRecord.java:196)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLEngineInputRecord.decode(SSLEngineInputRecord.java:159)
at java.base/sun.security.ssl.SSLTransport.decode(SSLTransport.java:111)
... 28 more